" And guard silaturrahim relationship . Surely God always watches over you " ( Surat an - Nisa : 1 )
WORD silaturrahmi or sometimes written with silaturrahim derived from the Arabic Washala and rahim.Washala which then turned into shilatu means " connect " or " connect " . Medium womb means " relatives " or " affection " . Thus , friendship means to connect or tighten the kinship or brotherhood , as well as the means to connect affection affectionate mother to the fetus within the womb .
That's why , " establish friendship " and " filial to parents " is mentioned in the recommendation equivalently , as the words of the Prophet , " Berbaktilah to your parents and sambunglah silaturrahim rope " .
Friendship with Neighbors
In the teachings of Islam . This friendship so the recommended silaturrahim the main thing is it fisik.Artinya friendship , a friendship that is implemented directly , by visiting someone's home or place of residence .
Exodus phenomenon , although the reaction inviting pros and cons , actually be grateful . Because of this tradition of Indonesian people is maintained in society that friendship is maintained on the family in our society . Although once a year , anywhere to return to her hometown in order to bersilaturahim with relatives .
Honey spirit of friendship is not well developed in daily life with the wider community . Either because of the busyness of each , whether because of other reasons , but not a few people are indifferent to the neighbors in the neighborhood . Efforts to strengthen the Neighborhood Chairman friendship with Consecrated Work activities , Arisan RT , and so less addressed . The better the level of the economy of a society , the more lost silaturahimnya relationship . People tend to live on their own and did not know the neighbors left - right and front - rear .
Though the Prophet had also lays out how to get the most simple friendship , are actually able to do any orang.Sabda he , " though only Sambunglah friendship with greetings ... "
So bersilaturahim it does not always have to carry hantaran.juga not there must be " something " that needs to be presented or discussed . Enough to meet and become acquainted advance and ask about each one .
Reward , World - Hereafter
In a hadith of the Prophet reminded that the actual human bersilaturahim get mamfaat in the world and the hereafter . He said ,
" But fear Allah and sambunglah friendship , surely you will get good in the world and the hereafter . "
Among the goodness in the world to be gained by people who bersilaturahim ie , extend life , and eliminates the trouble of extending sustenance . While good in the Hereafter , each step of a child who bersilaturahim to his parents , for example , will be recorded as a reward . Based on the hadith narrated by Abu Dhar Alghifari ra , then Allah will record for each step with a hundred reward . Furthermore , Allah will remove his sins for him and raised one hundred degrees .
Even if the direct physical friendship can not do , friendship via telephone , e - mail or letter , preferably turned on from now on . Periodically take the time to say hello to the people around us and those who have fraternal relations with us , even indirectly , it's good from the moment we planned . Inshallah steps to establish a friendship like this would be recorded as a reward . This is in line with the words of the Prophet , "Verily, it can be a legitimate charity with the intention and it really is for each person according to what he purposes ... " .
WORD silaturrahmi or sometimes written with silaturrahim derived from the Arabic Washala and rahim.Washala which then turned into shilatu means " connect " or " connect " . Medium womb means " relatives " or " affection " . Thus , friendship means to connect or tighten the kinship or brotherhood , as well as the means to connect affection affectionate mother to the fetus within the womb .
That's why , " establish friendship " and " filial to parents " is mentioned in the recommendation equivalently , as the words of the Prophet , " Berbaktilah to your parents and sambunglah silaturrahim rope " .
Friendship with Neighbors
In the teachings of Islam . This friendship so the recommended silaturrahim the main thing is it fisik.Artinya friendship , a friendship that is implemented directly , by visiting someone's home or place of residence .
Exodus phenomenon , although the reaction inviting pros and cons , actually be grateful . Because of this tradition of Indonesian people is maintained in society that friendship is maintained on the family in our society . Although once a year , anywhere to return to her hometown in order to bersilaturahim with relatives .
Honey spirit of friendship is not well developed in daily life with the wider community . Either because of the busyness of each , whether because of other reasons , but not a few people are indifferent to the neighbors in the neighborhood . Efforts to strengthen the Neighborhood Chairman friendship with Consecrated Work activities , Arisan RT , and so less addressed . The better the level of the economy of a society , the more lost silaturahimnya relationship . People tend to live on their own and did not know the neighbors left - right and front - rear .
Though the Prophet had also lays out how to get the most simple friendship , are actually able to do any orang.Sabda he , " though only Sambunglah friendship with greetings ... "
So bersilaturahim it does not always have to carry hantaran.juga not there must be " something " that needs to be presented or discussed . Enough to meet and become acquainted advance and ask about each one .
Reward , World - Hereafter
In a hadith of the Prophet reminded that the actual human bersilaturahim get mamfaat in the world and the hereafter . He said ,
" But fear Allah and sambunglah friendship , surely you will get good in the world and the hereafter . "
Among the goodness in the world to be gained by people who bersilaturahim ie , extend life , and eliminates the trouble of extending sustenance . While good in the Hereafter , each step of a child who bersilaturahim to his parents , for example , will be recorded as a reward . Based on the hadith narrated by Abu Dhar Alghifari ra , then Allah will record for each step with a hundred reward . Furthermore , Allah will remove his sins for him and raised one hundred degrees .
Even if the direct physical friendship can not do , friendship via telephone , e - mail or letter , preferably turned on from now on . Periodically take the time to say hello to the people around us and those who have fraternal relations with us , even indirectly , it's good from the moment we planned . Inshallah steps to establish a friendship like this would be recorded as a reward . This is in line with the words of the Prophet , "Verily, it can be a legitimate charity with the intention and it really is for each person according to what he purposes ... " .
Maintaining friendship
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